Hello Kami,
Mentioned Somewhere I’ll get back on the verse Of the Holy Quran.Never came across it again…One day,I’ll find it 
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Amazing how all the mad visions Stopped after this Post.Would have spoken earlier if i knew that 
A day or so before I posted this,I woke up at night with light emitting from the right side of my chest and specks that looked like little worms moving …they vanished under the light.
FYI,I never went to psychiatrist.I did not feel like sharing what I was going through with someone who will listen intellectually & analyze me mentally.
But funny Kami in a dream you were the psychiatrist.One daughter was on the phone and another in the same room with us.
Oh well,It’s all over now.Happy Ending over here
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Hi Namath,
So glad it’s over. You have been in my samyama and prayers. 
Funny about the dream! Hope that doesn’t mean I listen intellectually and analyze mentally.
But… Very often, people make appointments just to talk with me, claiming they feel very different after chatting, leaving me to wonder if I am indeed functioning as a psychologist instead of what I’m trained in… Who knows!!
Love and peace.
your presence is much stronger than someone who listens mentally.
Thank you for your Love and Prayer.
Hi Namath,
Thank you for the kind words.
In many ways, I am also glad that you brought up this topic, for it has enabled me to see clearly through “connections and bonds”. And the clarity has been uplifting. I’ve come to see that although connections may be real and unexpected, what keeps them in place is subtle clinging. And driving the clinging is some sort of story or belief - the clinging can be a “positive” or “negative”, I.e, attachment or aversion. There is some “need” of this person on some deep and often subconscious level. This is why aversive stories/beliefs also keep connections going, sometimes across lifetimes.
Also, connections occur at a subtle, non-physical level, but that doesn’t mean that all the idiosyncrasies, vasanas, deep-rooted habits and the all too “human” traits go away. No matter how strong a bond, these things cause individuals to clash and cause each other pain.
In my own case, I thought there was a bond with someone, but was able to see the subtle clinging that kept it in place. As soon as my own clinging was seen and let go, the bond itself dissolved. There are no more stories keeping it in place, no “need” for this or any other connection, no aversion or attachment. There is only a contented fullness/completeness with the vastness within myself.
Of course, this is just my experience with this stuff, based on my path of deep, unrelenting and ruthless inquiry. Others’ perceptions may vary.