I need to add - discretion is key.
Even as a child, I did not ask just because of pain, want, imagined need.
There is a listening in.
Asking is important.
Be as sure as possible that the ask is being encouraged.
Thank you, Ananda. This story and dialog are precious.
Thank you for reminding me of this topic… My master is in town… So, this is a good reminder 
Love to all and merry Christmas